Do you give until it hurts? I’ll bet you’re thinking this is a strange subject for the month of December.

Most of my readers are women. And women are known for their giving spirits. That’s not to say that men aren’t generous. They’re just a whole lot better at balancing giving with receiving.

Does this sound familiar: Sometimes you give so much that you start to feel resentful.

That leads me to my next question.?Are you comfortable receiving??If someone compliments you do you shrug it off saying, “oh, I’ve had this dress forever.” Or do you thank them and allow yourself to receive the gift they’re offering?

One of my favorite bible stories is of Mary and Martha. Martha is running around like crazy trying to make everything perfect for Jesus’ visit while her sister Mary sits at His feet listening with rapt attention. Martha complains to Jesus about Mary’s lack of help.

Jesus replies to her, “Martha, Martha,??the Lord answered,??you are worried?and upset about many things,?but few things are needed-or indeed only one.?Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.?

You?don’t have to be a Christian to appreciate the message here. There’s a time to give and a time to receive. Both are good for your health!